Sat, 27 December 2014
In previous episodes, I’ve talked about how you can only achieve the level of success that you truly believe. This week, I’ll tell you how you can expand this level of belief.
When you have an expanded level of belief in yourself, it allows you a different level of belief in others.
Sometimes people ask if I really believe that anyone can be successful.
There is a huge level of belief that you can grab ahold of, but it will come about by shaping how you think.
Your level of belief will not be expanded in a day. It will be expanded daily.
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Direct download: ITL165__The_Source_of_Your_Unlimited_Potential_Hint__Anyone_Can_Do_This.mp3
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Sat, 20 December 2014
On this week’s episode, I talk about passion, procrastination, and how they will shape your future.
I believe passion is a lot like momentum. •When you have momentum, you perform better than normal. •You produce at a level far beyond what you normally would if we measured you. •When you lack momentum, you produce at a lower level than normal. •People don’t generally stay on a level playing field. They either have momentum or they don’t.
I see people who have amazing abilities and opportunities but they won’t get out of their own way. •They will not discipline themselves. •Overcoming procrastination is saying, “I’m not going to live my life according to a feeling. I’m not going to let a feeling dictate the way I act. Instead, I’m going to let the way I act dictate my feelings.”
What do you like to do more than anything in the world? •Can you make yourself do something you don’t want to do for a little while to get something you’d like to have for the rest of your life? •Would it be worth it to you if for three years you never do some things that you like to do, but at the end of those three years you can do whatever you want whenever you want?
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Direct download: ITL164__How_to_Build_a_Life_from_Your_Passion_and_the_Effects_of_Procrastination.mp3
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Sat, 13 December 2014
On this week’s episode, David Loy has several holiday related questions for Andy,
Listen in to hear Andy’s answers to:
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Direct download: ITL163__Rapid_Fire_Holiday_Questions_with_Andy.mp3
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Sat, 6 December 2014
In this episode, I talk about selfishness, and how it can keep you and everyone around you from growing.
One of the top three most important things Jones ever told me was, “Most people live their entire lives and never understand that you can’t always believe everything you think.”
The truth isn’t that they couldn’t match the offer; the truth is that they chose not to match the offer.
You want to increase your value, but watch the people you work with and keep an eye on their value.
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Direct download: ITL162__How_Your_Own_Jealousy_Can_Keep_You_from_Progress.mp3
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Sat, 29 November 2014
On this week’s episode, I discuss when to eliminate negative people from your life.
We hear that we need to eliminate negative people from our lives.
What if Jones eliminated negative people from his life?
When I was living under the pier, I really needed to eliminate the negative influences in my life.
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Sat, 22 November 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on staying positive day in and day out.
We’ve talked about this a lot but I really believe that our thinking is the foundation of everything that we become.
Frankly, I’m not always positive.
A huge thing for me is to have a long view of time.
If you feel people are looking to you for everything, I would imagine it’s because you’ve been successful in the past at providing perspective about a situation that was true.
There are huge benefits to issues, problems, and failures. You are building a story.
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Direct download: ITL160_-_How_to_Stay_Positive_Consistently_Even_When_You_Dont_Feel_Like_It.mp3
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Sat, 15 November 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on the difference between discipline and punishment.
Before getting into that I have a quick story:
So, what is the difference between discipline and punishment?
You want to make sure that a child knows to obey now, and if they are outside the circle of discipline then there will be a punishment.
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Direct download: ITL159_-_The_Crucial_Difference_Between_Discipline_and_Punishment.mp3
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Sat, 8 November 2014
On this week’s episode, I discuss money and the influence it should have on your parenting style.
How does the amount of money you have (or don’t have) affect your parenting style?
Austin just turned 15, and he was aware at 10 years old that he would be buying his own car.
For a child to become a great adult, it’s easier to reach your potential if you have the confidence that you are capable of doing things yourself.
As far as parenting, I really believe that our quality time, and even our gifts, do NOT have to be about having money.
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Direct download: ITL158_Can_You_Still_Parent_Your_Kids_Well_Without_Having_Much_Money.mp3
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Sat, 1 November 2014
On this week’s episode, I give some advice to a family with two boys gifted in different ways, and I give suggestions on how the parents can help guide them to the right career paths.
My wife says I have been gifted with being able to remember every single thing I’ve ever seen or heard, and I do have one very odd gift that I will display on occasion.
Isn't it odd how the same parents can raise children the same way, but they still can turn out so different?
When it comes to picking a career path, take a breath.
For teens and young adults having trouble identifying the direction they want to go in, ask them these questions (if it won’t discourage them):
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Direct download: ITL_157_-_How_Do_You_Help_Kids_Find_The_Right_Career_Path.mp3
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Sat, 25 October 2014
On this week’s episode, we have Patsy Clairmont back in the studio to talk about her new book Twirl, and share some personal stories.
A lot of people have ideas but it’s rare the people can actually pull them off. Patsy brings people into her home who need to do something creative in their lives.
Patsy’s battle against agoraphobia:
“You have been created with a will that is stronger then your emotions.”
Patsy’s new book, Twirl, just came out.
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Direct download: ITL156_-_Overcoming_Your_Emotional_Instability_-_With_Special_Guest_Patsy_Clairmont.mp3
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Sat, 18 October 2014
On this week’s episode, we have Crystal Paine, “THE Money Saving Mom,” in our studio to answer a few questions about how her business has grown into what it is today.
How did this all get started?
How did it all evolve into what it is today?
How did the book, Say Goodbye to Survival Mode, come about?
What are some of the things you’ve had to overcome?
“My long-term vision is to impact as many lives and help as many people to get their finances and life in order so they can live their life on purpose and influence their communities and ultimately the world.”
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Direct download: ITL155_-_How_I_Grew_My_Blog_into_My_Full-Time_Job_-_Interview_with_Special_Guest_Crystal_Paine.mp3
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Sat, 11 October 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on finding role models when none are present in your life.
If you’re having a hard time finding role models, then you’re already on the right track because you’ve identified the need to seek out others.
How do you find somebody to be mentored by?
I urge you to take notes on people.
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Direct download: ITL154_-_Not_Finding_the_Right_Role_Model_This_Works_EVERY_Time.mp3
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Sat, 4 October 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question about the characteristics of a successful coach.
I speak and write but I also have a couple of clients, including football teams. My criteria for taking on a client:
People can only achieve to the level that they really believe.
To me, the characteristics of a successful coach are:
Determine the best result that could ever possibly happen, then backup and design methods specific to that result.
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Fri, 26 September 2014
On this week’s episode, we have very special guest Patsy Clairmont in the studio to talk about her life and have some laughs.
I was on tour with Patsy for three years while touring with Women of Faith.
Listen in to hear Patsy talk about the small group workshop in her home, and tell stories about finding creativity (including a time when someone called her “the worst student I’ve ever had”).
Go to PatsyClairmont.com and check out Shaking Your Tree to hear more from Pasty on how she can help you develop creativity and confidence.
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Direct download: ITL152_Release_Your_Creativity_with_Special_Guest_Patsy_Clairmont.mp3
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Sat, 20 September 2014
On this week’s episode, I respond to a listener question about discussing the topic of depression and suicide prevention.
This week’s topic comes from a father who lost his daughter to suicide in a nationally televised story.
You may have heard people or doctors say this kind of thing runs in families.
The tough thing about this will be to separate your daughter from the act and remember the love that she had.
I want you to be very aware of how grateful you can be for her life.
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Direct download: ITL151_-_When_Someone_in_Your_Life_Commits_Suicide.mp3
Category:Podcast -- posted at: 10:25am CDT |
Sat, 13 September 2014
On this week’s episode, I talk about a very unusual summer event that occurs a few times a year on the shore of Mobile Bay. Something very unique happened earlier this week while at a book signing in Fairhope, Alabama.
I am shocked by how many people read The Noticer Returns and think “Jubilee” is something I made up.
It’s an odd thing in the world where someone’s influence or money can buy what whatever they want.
If you haven’t read The Noticer Returns and want to hear an amazing story involving a jubilee and how it impacted the lives of several people, The Noticer Returns
Andy will also be having a parenting conference at Wiregrass Church Sunday September 21, 2014 at 7 pm. This is a free event, but you will need tickets, as is it limited to only 1500 attendees, Click here for more info. (It’s the third bullet point on the bottom right of the site.)
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Direct download: ITL150_Jubilee_A_Fishermans_Dream_Come_True.mp3
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Sat, 6 September 2014
On this week’s episode, I address a listener question on the distinction between coaching and mentoring. The question we received is, “What are the differences between coaching and mentoring, and does the distinction really matter?”
I’ve been mentored by people that don’t know it and people who are already dead.
A buddy of mine a few years ago told me that his mom left him some money, and he was thinking about hiring a person he knows as a financial planner.
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Direct download: ITL149_The_Difference_Between_Coaching_and_Mentoring.mp3
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Sat, 30 August 2014
On this week’s episode, I address a listener question about my perspective on finding peace when dealing with death. This topic was on my mind when I was writing The Noticer Returns.
Listen in as I answer this question by reading a full chapter from The Noticer Returns. Get your full version of The Noticer Returns for a more thorough answer to this question. To get your own copy now, just click here. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL148_-_How_Do_You_Find_Peace_When_Dealing_with_Death_.mp3
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Sat, 23 August 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on how to turn big powerful thoughts into smaller, concise statements so they can be clearly communicated to others. Before getting into that, we have a quick announcement.
We’ve all heard the statements:
It is a common mistake for people to allow methods to determine their possible results.
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Direct download: ITL147_How_to_Refine_Your_Methods_and_Accelerate_Your_Success.mp3
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Sat, 16 August 2014
On this week’s episode, I share my perspective on how to talk to your kids when they are being to hard on themselves and falling apart. As parents, it is crucial that we are vulnerable about our pasts.
My son, Adam, is very sensitive and tends to think about things that might not bother his older brother.
I recently heard a pastor say to the church’s youth, “Sometimes God will give you a weakness that you really have to struggle with, and it will become a strength.” I told Adam a story about two football teams.
Make sure to check out the free parenting videos on the website. There’s a bunch of great information on how to talk to your kids. Here’s a link, so you don’t have to go hunting: Click here Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL146_What_to_Say_to_Your_Kids_When_Theyre_Too_Hard_on_Themselves.mp3
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Sat, 9 August 2014
On this week’s episode, I respond to a question about reading biographies to children and my thoughts on fiction. I would read biographies to the boys when they were younger and paraphrase to make it more age-appropriate.
I find it weird when people have a sort of snobbery toward fiction.
You want the kind of fiction that sparks the right kind of imagination.
The Kid Who Changed the World is a clever telling of how much we all mean to each other and the difference we can make, while also teaching history. Click here to learn how to get your own copy of The Kid Who Changed the World. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL145_What_Kinds_of_books_should_you_and_your_children_read.mp3
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Sat, 2 August 2014
On this week’s episode, I discuss a popular listener question: “What should you provide for your kids, and what should they have to work for?” Some parents have a cut and dry answer for that, but I don’t.
There was a time last week that I needed to drive Austin around to several locations for the business he has started.
I recently saw a kid who got a brand new BMW on his 16th birthday.
I’ve elaborated on this topic in a free 4-video series I did on smart parenting. I’d love for you to get to watch it! These short videos cover must-know information for parents. In seconds, they could change your kids’ lives forever. Click here for free instant access to the videos. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL144_What_Should_You_Make_Your_Kids_Work_For_and_What_Should_You_Just_Give_Them.mp3
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Sat, 26 July 2014
ITL143: The Rarely Asked, But Often Pondered Question: What’s the Correct Handshake Etiquette for Girls?
On this week’s episode, I respond to a listener question about handshake etiquette for girls. I don’t think there is a “right” or “wrong,” but I do think there is a “best.” There are a couple of schools of thought here:
With the way our world works today, I don’t think a woman shaking hands should offend anyone.
I’ve taught my boys that there are many people who will not expect a handshake from them because of their age.
I’ve elaborated on this topic in a free 4-video series I did on smart parenting. I’d love for you to get to watch it! These short videos cover must-know information for parents. In seconds, they could change your kids’ lives forever. Click here for free instant access to the videos. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL143_Whats_the_Correct_Handshake_Etiquette_for_Girls.mp3
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Sat, 19 July 2014
On this week’s episode, I talk about my special new book, The Perfect Moment, and the peculiar story of how it came to be published: It all started while I was throwing football with one of my boys.
The book offers amazing insights into finding the hidden value of everyday life.
We are very grateful for Mac Anderson and Simple Truths for putting this book out nationwide. I’m absolutely thrilled with how beautiful the book turned out! Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
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Sat, 12 July 2014
Before getting into our discussion, I wanted to give a shout-out to my friend Wes Hampton.
This week’s topic comes from a pastor who sometimes works with victims of sexual abuse, and what “accepting responsibility” would look like in this situation. One of the women he works with started reading The Traveler’s Gift and closed the book when she read to accept responsibility for your past. Life is a series of advancing what we understand, or we kind of stop in a certain place and say, “That’s it.”
Accepting responsibility for our past also means determining what we are responsible for.
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Direct download: ITL141_When_Does_The_Buck_Stops_Here_NOT_apply.mp3
Category:Podcast -- posted at: 9:49am CDT |
Sat, 5 July 2014
On this week’s episode, I address the question of how to balance contentment and the things you want in life. There are several things I want to do and want to have. Before anything “goes up on our refrigerator,” so to speak, I see if it fits my criteria…
We are very joyful whether we get to do something or not. There is an understanding that we don’t need certain things to feel fulfilled. I am very aware of blessings beyond need.
Gratefulness is right in the middle of this question. You’ve got to have a grateful spirit and understand that if your needs are met, everything else is gravy. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL140_How_to_be_Content_and_Ambitious_at_the_Same_Time.mp3
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Sat, 28 June 2014
On this week’s episode, I talk about the benefits of gardening with your family and answer a listener question on divided families.
We have a little garden of eight blackberry bushes that we planted three years ago.
This is a great thing parents can do with their kids.
Planting something is a great metaphor for life.
What can parents of divided families do to make sure they’re being as effective as they can?
Check out Andy’s parenting series for more information. You will get access to over 80-minutes of free content in this 4-video series.
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Direct download: ITL139_-_Surprising_Things_Your_Kids_Can_Learn_from_a_Garden.mp3
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Sat, 21 June 2014
On this week’s episode, I share my thoughts on a listener question about generational advancement.
Reversing generational curses or trends is a huge thing to me, and I’ve spent a great deal of time searching for answers on this topic.
The most important thing I’ve learned on this search comes from studying many other families.
It’s all parenting.
If you haven’t seen any of the parenting course, go to AndyAndrews.com and click on the parenting banner. Inside is a free 4-video series, which has over 80 total minutes of content.
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Direct download: ITL138_What_Other_Families_Can_Teach_Us_About_Generational_Legacy.mp3
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Sat, 14 June 2014
On this week’s episode, I’m sharing a story I wrote about my dad.
It’s not really a short story since all of it is true.
My father had a different method of parenting.
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Direct download: ITL137_-_A_Brief_History_of_My_Father.mp3
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Sat, 7 June 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on what it really takes to have a successful marriage. Occasionally you hear people say, “We don’t have any problems. We don’t fight ever.”
Polly and I have a working marriage. It’s a consistent work in progress.
Our first couple of years were the hardest part of our marriage.
I think that the kids knowing that your decisions are for your long-term future really affects them.
I think the best marriage book ever written is Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs. It firmly grasps the idea of what both people need. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL136_How_Does_a_Successful_Marriage_Work.mp3
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Sat, 31 May 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on thinking and how it inspires action. Most people believe that their choices determine where they are.
Are there instances in which action inspires different thinking?
There is a great paradox between “As a man thinketh, so is he,” and yet we’re still able to choose what we think and how we think. God feeds the birds, but he doesn’t throw worms in their nest.
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Direct download: ITL135_The_Paradox_Betwwen_Thinking_and_Action.mp3
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Sat, 24 May 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on which three words I would use to describe myself. One of them would definitely be searching.
The second word is intentional.
When you are intentional about where you are going to go, then you are able to determine very quickly if what you are doing is moving you closer or further from the result you want. The third word is really the first one I thought of, and that is grateful.
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Direct download: ITL134_How_to_be_Intentionally_Grateful.mp3
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Sat, 17 May 2014
On this week’s episode, I address a listener question on displacing negative thoughts. You can’t leave your mind blank.
Think about this….
There was a movie I saw in high school that totally freaked me out.
Why not choose what does go in our minds?
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Direct download: ITL133_-_Displacing_Negative_Thoughts.mp3
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Sat, 10 May 2014
On this week’s episode, we honor our mothers with an episode not just for Mother’s Day. A couple of weeks ago the boys found a vine hanging down from a tree.
I say this to friends of mine whose mothers pass away:
Make a determined and consistent effort to let your parents, especially your mama, know you love them.
I make sure the boys know every time they leave for school or go to bed at night that it could be the last time they see us.
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Direct download: ITL132_How_to_Honor_Your_Mother_Year-Round.mp3
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Sat, 3 May 2014
On this week’s episode I discuss why your family needs a mission statement and how my family created ours.
I’ve never seen a successful company that didn’t have a mission statement.
Polly, the boys, and I sat down and decided…
Over the course of several weeks we formed the mission statement, and it is now framed.
Be sure you’re on the AndyAndrews.com email list so you don’t miss the release of our free Family Mission Statement Builder! Go to AndyAndrews.com to sign up.
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Direct download: ITL131__The_Benefits_of_a_Family_Mission_Statement.mp3
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Sat, 26 April 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question about the hardest thing in my life and what I worry about the most. I think frustration is one of the hardest things in my life.
There was a time when Billy Graham was preaching out of a tent.
What do I worry about?
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Direct download: ITL130_What_to_Do_When_Youre_Frustrated_or_Worried.mp3
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Sat, 19 April 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question on self-sabotage and the most important quality in people. We’ve talked on several other episodes about how the way you think is the foundation for everything.
Out of the organizations and companies that I speak for, athletes usually have the hardest time believing this.
I believe the most important quality a person can have is to be a person other people want to be around. This encompasses…
If you do not focus on becoming a person other people want to be around, people aren’t going to listen to you. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL129_The_Most_Important_Quality_You_Can_Have.mp3
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Sat, 12 April 2014
On this week's episode, I talk about the first steps Polly and I took when we found out we were going to be parents. I never expected to do anything like this, but I think this is the most important thing I’ve ever done. 15 years ago when Polly sat me down and said “we are going to have a baby,” I was excited…and then broke out in a cold sweat.
I believe you can know how to do a certain thing, but…
For a long time I didn’t want to do a parenting course because I’ve taken several courses and read fifty books.
This course is going to be all encompassing. Make sure you are on our email list so you can get the latest details about it. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL128_The_Most_Reliable_Parenting_Advice_Ive_Found.mp3
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Sat, 5 April 2014
My Newest Book and a Surprise Opportunity
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Sat, 29 March 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question:
The one most important thing to focus on is writing.
I hear terribly incomplete advice given to writers.
Two things I ask myself before any project
There are several things in common with the books I really enjoy.
So what are the three most important focuses for a young writer? I’ll give you five.
Don’t Give Up—the best book is stuck in somebody’s drawer. Now, with Amazon and everything, self-published books are much more viable. You don’t have to sell out of the back of your trunk anymore. Questions for Listeners
Direct download: ITL126__5_Important_Writing_Lessons_for_Any_New_Writer.mp3
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Sat, 22 March 2014
The Toughest Mental Obstacle I’ve Faced
On this week’s episode, I answer a listener question about the toughest mental obstacle I had to cross after overcoming homelessness.
Has there been any point when I felt like hiding under the pier again?
Part of life is the struggle to think a certain way.
The toughest thing I had to do was distance myself from that pier.
If you want to read more about how to become a better parent, businessperson, and member of your community, pick up a copy of The Noticer Returns.
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Direct download: ITL125_The_Toughest_Mental_Obstacle_Ive_Faced.mp3
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Sat, 15 March 2014
On this week’s episode, I talk about my passion for cooking outdoors, reveal my secret recipe for the best grilled vegetables ever, and discuss why I like to put things that I actually use into the stories in my books.
I am kind of a foodie.
I’m a grill guy, and I love the charcoal taste.
For years I have put things in my books that I like or use.
Secret Recipe: We will cut up whatever vegetables we have and cover them with an Italian dressing to soak for a little while. We’ll then put the vegetables in a basket that goes in our Kamado Joe, and smoke them at about 350 degrees.
Kamado Joe Giveaway: Be sure to watch your email for our announcement! If you’re not on our email list, be sure to join at AndyAndrews.com. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL124_The_Andy_Andrews_Guide_to_Cooking.mp3
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Sat, 8 March 2014
On this week’s episode, I talk about how you can win tickets to see me (along with many other awesome speakers) speak at Dave Ramsey’s SMART Conference!
This is going to be an amazing event at the Verizon Theatre in Dallas, TX—with speakers:
Dave Ramsey Rachel Cruze Dr. Henry Cloud Dr. Emerson Eggerichs Joy Eggerichs Dr. Meg Meeker Andy Andrews
People forget that Dave had to learn his financial stance as an adult after battling bankruptcy.
I have already pre-ordered my copy of their book, Smart Money Smart Kids: Raising the Next Generation to Win with Money.
Follow the link above to pre-order yours now!
Why is it important for people to attend events like this?
Have you ever been absolutely sure you know something in your life…and then a couple months later you found out that it wasn’t exactly correct?
It’s amazing to me that I wrote The Traveler’s Gift 15 years ago and people still find it valuable.
Make sure you are on our email list.
Check out these books from the other speakers!
Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father Should Know—by Dr. Meg Meeker
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life—by Dr. Henry Cloud
Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs—by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL123_Why_Its_Important_to_Attend_Conferences_and_Events.mp3
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Sat, 1 March 2014
On this week’s episode, I talk about the new “anger management”—conflict resolution.
When I hear the term still used, I always think, “Anger management? Why would you want to manage something like that and not get rid of it?”
Society believes two things about change.
However, I believe the two things people need are…
When something is demonstrably good for you, that change will occur whether you are looking for it or not.
Imagine conflict resolution as two people across from each other on opposite sides, playing double solitaire.
A resolution to conflict is going to require change, and the change must have both parties winning.
Are you feeling “stuck” in some part of your life?
Questions for Listeners
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Sat, 22 February 2014
A Behind-the-Scenes Tour of the Writing Process On this week’s episode, I discuss my creative process for writing even in the midst of rejection. The greatest book ever written is in somebody’s drawer somewhere.
Part of my creative process is to do battle with myself quickly.
You can either take their word and live according to their opinion, or you can reject it and look for people who are wiser in the area where you are heading.
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Direct download: ITl121_A_Behind_the_Scenes_Tour_of_the_Writing_Process.mp3
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Sat, 15 February 2014
On this week’s episode, I answer listener questions about time-travel and my switch from comedy to whatever it is that I do now.
Would you rather go into the future to meet your great grandchildren, or travel backward and meet your great grandparents?
Wisdom is a little beyond knowledge.
How did you know when it was time to change speaking platforms from comedy to what you do now?
I can remember when I was on tour with Kenny Rogers, and we started talking about Jones and the Seven Decisions.
Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL120_Curious_Questions_on_Time_Travel_Wisdom_and_My_Career.mp3
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Sat, 8 February 2014
On this week’s episode, I give my two cents on some of my favorite responses to our previous listener question: “If you could have a five-minute phone call with your 18-year-old self, what would you tell yourself to be aware of?” From our listener… "Just pick up the phone and make the needed phone call. Just do it. Returning needed phone calls, or calling to confirm, cancel or postpone appointments is part of the process of becoming a responsible, dependable person. Don't shut the door on yourself through negligence caused by shyness and procrastination. Keeping doors open or ensuring good closure is crucial for maintaining good relationships. Faithfulness in little things will lead to bigger things." Have a decided heart. • You will get stuck in an ongoing state of analysis. • I see so many people who spend so much time analyzing decisions they have already made, that they don’t have any emotional or physical energy to do what they have decided. The Traveler’s Gift was written four years before it was published. • If I kept analyzing whether or not the book was worth publishing during the years it was turned down, the book wouldn’t be out yet. • I’m still learning things about the decisions. In regard to the shyness… • Most people think that confidence is something that always came easy for me. • There were times when I was starting out that I would be sick to my stomach, even when a show was more than a week away. I was scared. • But I knew I wanted people to hear what I had to say.
Direct download: ITL119_How_to_Make_Decisions_and_Overcome_Shyness.mp3
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Sat, 1 February 2014
On this week’s episode, we have comedian and good friend Jeff Allen on the show to have some laughs and answer a few questions.
Jeff is one of my great buddies and, to me, is one of the funniest working stand-up comedians today.
One of my favorite bits of his is the Three-Word Vocabulary
My son Austin is getting close to getting his drivers license. Jeff shared his experience with having a child at that age:
What is Jeff’s favorite product he has produced and why?
You can find more about Jeff on his website JeffAllenComedy.com
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Sat, 25 January 2014
On this week’s episode, we answer a fun question from a listener: Would you rather win the lottery or live twice as long? As history has shown us, winning the lottery can be life changing…but not always in a great way. • This is something I think we all have fantasized about. • I think we all have a purpose and I’ve asked myself the question… • Would I continue to write if I didn’t have the pressure? How many times in my life am I not aware of what is going to happen next week? • You can sometimes get a little fearful looking ahead, but… • Don’t expect to know what is coming. • Allow God to direct our path. Look back and think about times in your life in which you know your path was being directed. Question: If you could have a five-minute phone call with your 18-year-old self, what would you tell yourself to be aware of? · We would love to hear your answers! Send your answers to InTheLoop@AndyAndrews.com, and your email response may be featured on a future episode of In The Loop. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show! • Phone: 1-800-726-ANDY • E-Mail: InTheLoop@AndyAndrews.com • Facebook.com/AndyAndrews • Twitter.com/AndyAndrews
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Sat, 18 January 2014
On this week’s episode, Andy discusses a listener question: I’m making an effort in positive personal development, but my spouse is not ready to do the same. What do you do until they’re ready, or how do I continue to nudge them in the right direction without being “pushy” or making them feel inferior? This is a huge source of confusion is marriages. We all grow at different… • Rates • Times • Areas Confidence or Arrogance? • Don’t brag about the improvements that you are making. • It is hard for a spouse to listen to someone whom they perceive as arrogant. • What you are doing speaks louder than anything you could say. A good marriage is a work in progress. If you and your spouse were exactly alike, one of you would be unnecessary. Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show! • Phone: 1-800-726-ANDY • E-Mail: InTheLoop@AndyAndrews.com • Facebook.com/AndyAndrews • Twitter.com/AndyAndrews
Direct download: ITL116_What_If_My_Spouse_Doesnt_Want_to_Grow.mp3
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Sat, 11 January 2014
What is it about you that other people would change if they could?
What if 25% of people were not comfortable with swearing? If you’re a business person, would you be okay with having 25% less business just because of the way you talk?
The other day one of my boys had a look on his face, and I could tell something was wrong. I asked:
People can sense when something is wrong, but most people aren’t going to say anything to you.
People will never change long term just because you say so. They will change long term when you…
Back in the ‘80s when I was doing comedy, I was booking more shows than just about anybody, and was even given the award as campus entertainer of the year.
Questions for Listeners Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show!
Direct download: ITL115_Are_You_Attracting_Opportunity...or_Repelling_It.mp3
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Sat, 4 January 2014
On this week's episode, I talk about the surprising benefits of spending time alone. Why is it important to spend time alone? • Spending time alone is the best way to concentrate my thoughts. • It’s a good way to stimulate creativity. • If I can wake up before my family and refrain from checking email, my phone, or turning on the news, I can have amazing results. This isn’t so much about being alone as it is about spending time with my boys, but while driving the boys to school, I reach my hand back and say, “Hands!” and we pray for… • Teachers • Friends • Mom • Our day Sometimes, it’s necessary to leave the house in order to be alone. Here are some of the places I go: • The woods are a great place for me to get away. • I’ll go alone to a cabin sometimes and spend several days by myself. • Most of my novels are not written while I’m at home. • The water is not a particularly good place for me, as I’m always wondering what is in the water. As much as you may be thinking, I wouldn’t say that I am alone a lot. • It doesn’t have to be for long periods of time every single day. • It’s important to make a habit of finding at least small portions of the day during which you can be alone. We also had an interesting question come in: would I rather spend a year alone in a box, or 15 years alone in a hotel room? Tune in for my answer! Questions for Listeners
Do you have a question? Call in and your question might be featured on the show! • Phone: 1-800-726-ANDY • E-Mail: InTheLoop@AndyAndrews.com • Facebook.com/AndyAndrews • Twitter.com/AndyAndrews |